Many of us are at that point where just as our kids need us less, our parents need us more. We have moved away from the old “nuclear family” concept, when generations often lived together or near by. Now, juggling a job, home, kids, and parents becomes a tremendous exercise in stress. MetLife estimates that 10 million adult children over age 50 now care for an aging parent.
It’s overwhelming just to think about it, let alone do it. The National Institute on Aging offers a free booklet, Twenty Questions and Answers About Long-Distance Caregiving that helps caregivers deal with many of the issues that surround aging relatives – whether it’s helping them cope with declining physical abilities, to setting up a system for household finances. Another good source for some additional ideas on caregiving and older parents is this recent US News & World Report article.
